This is how Stack Overflow looks when you visit it the very first time
There are four dismissable dialogs/announcements there and two things in the sidebar begging for attention. You have to dismiss three of these to even start using the site as they overlap important content. The consent dialog is not avoidable, the others are. This is already described in this post on MSE, but I'm repeating it here as it is part of the problem I'll describe.
The two highlighted sidebar items remain highlighted no matter what I do. No idea if that is a bug or not, but they remain visually distracting.
But then after you clicked all these things away and maybe looked at Chat or Challenges as they demanded your attention, you'll try to get back to the list of questions. Okay, I know that this is behind the "Questions" link in the sidebar, but my instinct is always to click on "Home" like on any other website. And I assume most people will do that as well.
At that point you're greeted with this:
Okay, I don't read it as I'm not interested and dismiss this with the expectation that I'll get to the homepage. I don't, if you dismiss this dialog you don't go anwhere.
I click on it again and select a tag randomly. I still don't read the fineprint, because who does. It asks for light mode or dark mode. Don't care, I click next. Then, for a full three seconds I see the following:
This dialog intentionally wastes my time for three seconds. I'm pretty sure there is nothing computationally intensive going on in the background there. It's not actually setting up anything, it's just pretending and wasting my time.
And finally I arrive at this
I must create an account to view the homepage, there is no other way. I could have known that if I had read the fine print on the tag selection part of this dialog, but well that's not an excuse to require this.
This is a horrible user experience, the sidebar link that users are most likely to click lands you in a terrible signup flow pretending to be customization. So even if you dismiss it the first time, odds are you'll reflexively click on "Home" at some point again, triggering this dialog. And you can't just click anywhere to dismiss it, you have to hit the X inside the modal.
I understand SE is trying to get more vistors to sign up, but pissing off anonymous users is not the right way to do that.



