Asking Eric: Mutual friend turns two friends against a third
They didn’t just drop our friendship out of the blue on their own, it was heavily influenced by our mutual friend.

Asking Eric: Wanting to make it clear to family that we do not want any gifts
In the past the family members have all planned lists. We want to tell the rest of the fairly large family that enough is enough.

Asking Eric: Birthday celebration in question as son is locked in dispute with his father
I love my son with all my heart, as I do all my children, and want his 40th birthday to be memorable in a positive way.

Asking Eric: My husband is so cheap when we go out, that we often just stay in
For my last birthday, we went to a bistro and shared a sandwich, while he chose a pricey new Thai restaurant for his.

Asking Eric: Speaking my mind got me banished from a family member’s home
My stepson said I disrespected my daughter-in-law. I stand by my statement.

Asking Eric: Years after addiction, my family remains distant
What do I do to fix this and fast, as I said I’ve turned 40 this year, my parents are both 70. Time is running out.

Asking Eric: Daughter-in-law’s Friendsgiving overshadows family dinner
I just can’t get into it and feel resentment that I waited to host the meal and now it is like feeding everyone leftovers.

Asking Eric: My son is upset that I posted a photo on social media
Should I have interpreted “we’re not into social media” differently?

Asking Eric: Medical issue means I can’t eat at holiday events
I find during the holidays people attempt to make me special food during parties and get-togethers.

Asking Eric: Awkward gift exchange tradition is tiresome
We are at the stage in life where we really do not need more “stuff” and would rather not deal with gifts that are generic at best.

Asking Eric: I don’t like Christmas gifts, but don’t want to be seen as a Scrooge
I don’t enjoy shopping and never have. I don’t like giving gifts just for the sake of gift exchanges.

Asking Eric: Acquaintance is friendly in person but ignores me on Facebook
This Facebook thing has got me confused. I don’t know what kind of friend she is so I’m getting uncomfortable around her.


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